Grumble, grumble..

Ok. I have to be honest. I am still mad with the BIL.

It really sucks that he is such a d+ck and my parents put up with his selfishness and inconsideration.

He parks the car in the driveway, blocking up 2 perfectly good carpark lots. Then the rest of us have to park on the street, risking traffic fines ( which I did get in January..argh..that is still not sorted out yet!)It's obvious but my parents live with it.

He takes the newspapers from my parents' home, and doesn't return it. My mum gets mad with the maid because the papers can't be found. Cheapskate. Newspapers cost all of 90c. My parents know but don't say anything to him.

He has no respect for anyone but himself and thinks his opinions are the only one that count. And of course he has no basis for that, seeing that he does not read much or have a really good background grasp of most things. I don't even think he is really respected professionally. ( that's SAD )

And now... I think what p*sses me off is that he does not make an effort to think through the issue before simply brushing off my management plan. Does he really think I would choose to poison his wife? My sister? With opthalmic drops? And the risk /benefit ratio: not to treat a contact lens related infection? Does he have an alternative? No! The first thing he could think of was just that it was a BAD choice of treatment. UNBELIEVABLE. It's INSULTING. Does he think I am unable to look these things up ? Did he consider the complications of her condition? Did he ensure she had a more thorough clinical examination before treatment? Or even offer to take her to another doctor? NO NO NO. WHAT AN IDIOT. POINT MADE.

I am still p*ssed. I don't let other people push me around but I have to let this go BECAUSE he is RELATED? What a curse.

Maybe it's a lesson in patience? Training in the ways of wisdom? Business training? Please, someone show me the light! Please give me the STRENGTH to survive another few decades of having to associate with him. SUCH A JUVENILE. Why am I still p*ssed?